TRUE TEST OF FRIENDSHIP
True friendship is determined at a time when the going gets real tough in one's life. A lot if people may really show care until a time when you become unbearable. It is at such time that you discover those who genuinely love & appreciate your person.

I've been through phases of friendship. The simple lesson I've learnt over time is that you need to be your own friend first. When you depend on external friendship, finding fulfilment becomes a luxury. But when you believe in yourself, finding fulfilment becomes a necessity!

THE HORRORS OF DEATH!
I'm a dead man!!! It feels giod to be on this side  of life. Patience is a virtue. The more you wait on God the more blessed you become. God is never late. His time is the best. I love Jesus my savior. He died for me so that I will never die again. I live eternally. I thank my Pastor, David Ogbueli...for teaching me how to live on this side of life. Thank you sir!!

As the last boy in our familyz I'm a child pf promise. I came after my brother Ifeanyi. We are the only sons of our parehts. We have 5kid sisters. They are my precious jewel especially Oluoma, Amara, Obioma, Ebere & Adaeze!!

It is good to die!!0 I have never weeped during burials because I'm just likevmy fiancee, Uche. Blessing, thank you for understanding my plight. Adaora, may you marry a mah like Asari Dokubo who owns a  university in Niger Republic.

My hand don dey pain me. I'm tired of writing. Lets try talking. I love you

ONCE A CORPER, ALWAYS A CORPER!!!
My 2019  vision is to revive, reinvigorate & Restore the lost dignity of National youth service. I want to see an NYSC built on selfless service for the Nation. I want an NYSC built on true Patriotism for our Nation, Nigeria.

I want an NYSC where officials are handsomely paid. I want an NUMYSC where the Directors especially the State Cordinator, Camp Director, Platon Inspectors & camp director earns at least 500k monthly with ancilliary allowances...

I want an NYSC where Corps members earn at least 50k monthly. I want an NYSC where Accomodation & transport allowance shall be provided for Corps members by both the Federal Government and other employers.
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I want a corrupt free NYSC. I want an NYSC where corpers shall be posted based on their academic discipline. For instance, our medical practirioners shoukd be posted to a General hospital & rural clinics. Lawyers should be posted to Local Government Areas & State ministry of Justice.

I want an NYSC where everyone is treated equally no matter the state of origin or family background. That is the NYSC OF MY DREAM!!!

KEEP WAITING ON GOD
I have been waiting on God to settle me. I feel I've invested so much without reaping anything. But I refuse to give up. I'll keep waiting on him until he choses to bless me. Since my father, Abraham waited, why won,'t I wait??

God never fails!! He is good at delaying our blessing because he wants to test our faith. I have learnt over the years not to rush God. I'll wait for him to bless me in His timing. Please, don't loose hooe. He never fails!!!

I love God Almighty with my body, spirit, soul & mind!! I encourage if young man or woman in 21st Centurt to make up his or her mind to follow God,!!!
God bless you!!!!

I TAKE RESPONSIBLITY FOR ALL MY ACTIONS

I've hurt so many people. I've many people cry fot my sake. I don't blame anybody for my actions. Its all my fault & I takr absolute responsibility for all my actions.

We are  all humans, hence , fallible & imperfect. If I have failed you, please find a place in your heart to forgive me. I'm so sorry. I promise to turn a nee leaf from now heneforth.

Do not hesistate to tell me wherre I erred against you. Lets love together as one big family in unity & love! Thank you so much. I love you!

SHARE YOUR KNOWLEGE WITH OTHERS
Most people think that the more the hoard what they know the better fior them. But I've come to learn that the more you sharewhat you know with others, the more God, multiplies your knowlege. Plesse learn to share whatever youhave with others.

Don't be too stingy with what ever God gives you. If you are rich, learn to share your resources with the poor and needy around you. Be good to people.  Don't be selfish what your material possessions. The tables of life could be shaked at any time. The person you helped today maybe the one to help you tomorrow.

Become a philantropist with the little you have. Don't wait until you have billions beore you can help the poor. Don't give money to your Pastor when you have not paid the school fees of that indigent kid around you.
Please share with othe!
I love you!!!!

JUST GET A FRIEND
You need a boy or girl friend!! You need someone you can lean on in times of tribulation. You need someone you can laugh with, smile with & cry with in times of pain. Don't be s lone ramger. Even the Holy Scriptures agrees with the fact that two is better tham one.

All my life, I've been blessed with friends espcially the female folks. In my University days, I had numerous female friends but guess what, I only had one girlfriend. Her name is Esther Dania Omokafe.  We never hugged nor kissed for 7years.

When I encourage youths to get a boyfriend or girlfrend, I don't mean a sex partmer. Any relationship that is built on sex will no  last. Build your friendship on the solid rock of God's word & Principles. That is the secret between my friendship with Esther. We both love God with our lives. When I served as Bible Study Secretary, Esther was my Assistant. Most timesz she prepares the Bible study manual on my behalf.

As two peiple from poor homes, we managed our resources very well. She wasn't demandimg so much from me because she knows my financia background. My respect for het doubled the day I took her to Shoprite for her birthday celebration. I told her to pick anything she wants....but she just picked few things & asked that we go home.

Esther remains my best friend!!
Please, get a friend this week & gist us on your experience..
I love you!!

MAKE THE BEST OUT OF YOUR TIME
As ASUU strikes, a wise student is not he or she that sits at home waiting till the strike is called off. Every minute of your life matters. Don't waste so much time watching moveis, playing video games, gossiping etc rather, use yoir time wisely.

I need you all to learn from my kid siter, Mercy. She became a full time busimess woman during this ASUU strike. She doen't depend on my parents for her daily upkeep. Thats the real slay mama. She sells soya milk, kunu & zobo. Thats my mum's business....she learnt same from my mum & she has been using that knowlege to mae cool cssh for herself.

All my sisters are industrious. I say this with every sense of humility. Don't use your poor background as an excuse for selling your body. There many things you can do to earn money. You can hawk sachet water....it doesn't make you any less big.  From hawking sachet water, you can become a distributor of bags of water.

Don't sit at home complaining. Just do something meaningful with your life. Don't chat all day. Have some savings as you spend your money!!

I love you!!

Make Your Relationship Complimentary

Most relationships in Nigeria fail because most girls have  a' receiving mindset. They have a sense of entitlement. They believe that it is the duty of men to always give while they remain at the receiving end. Most of the relaionships I've involved in have ended up due to this factor. Most 21st century slay mamas doesn't have my mum's kind of mentality. Thats why I'm scared of getting married. There are too many women in the world but few wives.
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My mum triained us in school when my dad's businesd failed. They both lived as best of friends even when my dad had little to offer. I believe thats how a realtionship should be. I have girls who have imsulted me because I don't have a car nor enough money to meet up with their numerous demands.

I believe in marring your best friend instead of marryiing  a man who has made it. Most relationships are not built on solid rock. They shatter into pieces when little wind blows on it. For now, am still looking for a best who will be like my mum to me. I pray God helps us find ome. Don't be a girl that loves momey more than you love your eternal happiness. Money cannot buy joy & fulfilment in marriage. But when you marry your best friend, you both can build each other together. It is well with us!

We Are a Chosen Generation

Irrespective of the lack,hunger, intimidation, reckless killings & starvation going on in Nigeria, we still remain the most blessed country in the world. We are envied by other nations of the world. Nigeria is blessed with both human & material resources. We have great potentials in Nigeria. Fortunately, my generation is the chosen generation or transformstion in Nigeria.

Every Nigerian youth is born wih a Destiny & a talent. Destiny is what you were created to be while potential or talent is what you derive joy in doing. For me, I have been drstined to be an erudite Lawyer but am talented in writing. Every Nigerian youth must discover his gift, talemt & potential.

While we await on God to salvage us from from the current government, it is expedient that we use our gift to create wealth for ourselves. Don't wait on government or white collar jobs. You can learn how to sow clothes, repair motorcycle, sell satchet water & how to use the internet. You must learn how to do things outside your discipline.

Don't accept defeat as a Nigerian Youth. We all are born to succeed! Your success is sure. Be kind to people. Invest in people's lives & destiny! It is well with you!!!

Most Nigerian Youths Are Lazy!!!!
President Buhari was correct when he told the international community that we are lazy. The only fallacy he committed was making it a hasty generalization. But the truth is that we are lazy. We only good at criticizing people online. We are not creative as a Nation. We derive joy in seeing the downfall of others.

Most Nigerians are very intelligent. The best brains in the world are Nigerians but our lazy attitude to work will not allow us to drill the best out ofour minds. We are good at snapping sexy pix & celebrating birthdays online. We are using the hardwork of Mark Zukerberg to fan our Lazy ass.
It is time for Nigerian youths to arise!! It is time for us to use our minds to create the best products in the world. Lets rise from our confort zones and work with our hands. For youths that enjoy sleeping alot....lets rise up from our slumber.

Lets raise the Nigerian banner high!! Lets arise & take over the government of Nigeria because it is our tine time to shine. Lets refuse to be intimidated by our elders. Lets respect them with humility but please, don't be timid.

God bless Nigeria!!!
I'm proudly a Nigerian!!!

How To Overcome Porn Addiction

I was a porn addict for over 10yrs of my life. Owing to my religious background, I was taught to flee from fornication. My parents never taught necessary to educate me on my sexuality. As I attempted to obey my parents' instructions as regards premarital sex, I sunk deeper into pornograpghy.

Telling you the story of how I struggled over the years from pornographic addiction....I feel it will benefit you more if I share the secrets of how I conquered this menace.

First, I told myself the truth. I acknowledged that I was a porn addict & desperately needed help. I sought for a counsellor after pourimg out my heart to God in prayers.
I was linked to Uncle Jide Olunubi (A youth mentor/pastor).
I confessed my porn addiction to him & expressed my earnest desire to become free.

I received counsel on how I can easily overcome porn addiction. I deleted all the porn videos in my laptop and cell phone. I burnt all my porn magazines & pictures.

Secondly, I changed my clique of friends. I attached myself to Students Christian Movement (SCM UNEC) where I made godly friends who upheld me in prayers.

Thirdly, I got busy. I bought inspirational books especially from Myles Munroe. I was always reading edifying materials.
I downloaded messages & godly songs with my phone. I love music a lot & spent my leisure time listening to godly songs.
I prayed fervently & made a covenant with my eyes not to behold the nakedness of a woman until the right time (marriage).

My book titled 'OVERCOMING PORNOGRAPHIC ADDICTION' will enlighten you more on how I finally truimphed over pornographic Addictiom. I encourage you to grab a copy!!
God bless you!!!

WHY DO YOU HATE SEX??

Everyone detest hearing people discuss the concept of sex. In our religious circle, it is the most frowned topic to be discussed in the so-called gatherimg of saints. We abhore talking about sex as if we all are not a product of sex! I love sex!!!! What God abhores is the abuse of sex not the sexual act itself!

We have been deceived for too long. We are taught to hate sex. Our religious parents doesn't like hearing it from our lips. They are annoyed & angry to hear us mention sex. Aren't they being selfish?? They want to enjoy it alone. They paint sex as though it is evil.

Dearie, sex is good!! It was invented by God himself. You are a product of your parents' sexual intercourse. But please, don't abuse it! It is the fruit at the middle of the garden of Eden. It has both fruits of good & evil.

When you abuse sex, expect premarital pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases. But when you honor sex, you reap the blessings that come with it.
Sex is permissible amongst adults in thr confine of marriage. So....don't abuse it.

Dear dad & mum, promote sex education among the younger generation else they will learn it from a bad source!
God bless you!!!

Believe in yourself!!
Many a time we are tempted to lose faith in our ability. The society sometimes makes us lose faith in who we are. We are more than what the society has defined us to be. We are a rare gem. We are more than conquerors. Please, don't allow anybody look down on you. You are great!!!

You don't need to come from a rich family in order to make a difference in your world. Sometimes I thank God for making me a poor kid. Poverty drills out the best in you. It makes you think outside the box. It makes you forsake your comfort zone. It makes you a great lad.

Just thank God everyday for who you are!! Believe that you have what it takes to raise your family from the dunghill of poverty to the echelon of riches. My dear, don't allow your background to keep your back on the ground!

Don't allow past mistakes ruin your bright future!! You're a celebrity!! Please, celebrate yourself.

Don't take advantage of the poor
When you feel that you're at an advantage over another, be careful not to take advantage of that person. Many ogas has refused to settle their apprentice who has laboured & contributed to his master's riches. Please, don't take advantage of the poor.

You may at the top today but there is no guarantee that you'll remain at the top. So, when God places you above someone either financially or intellectually, don't use it as an advantage to make a fool out of that person.

Whe you hurt the poor, just know that you're punching their God in the face. Don't enslave the poor. No matter how highly placed you are, just know that it is by the grace of God. So, don't take advantage of the poor no matter what! Make 2019 a blissful year for you & your family by being a blessing to the poor!

MAKE YOURSELF EXPPENSIVE
most people make themselves so cheap to such a point that they can be easily used. But it's important you understand your worth.  As a lady,  don't make yourself a burden to your man.  When you do so,  it simply means you don't understand your worth.  Men aren't looking for butlrdensome ladies.

In making yourself expensive,  you need to learn how to shade & abound just like the nmbiblical Paul of Tarsus.  Learn to manage the little you have.  Learn to take responsibility especially for anything you do.  Learn a skill. Add value to your life!

In adding a value to your life,  you have to be careful the kind. Of friends you associate with.  You mustn't make everyone your friend.  Don't try to be like everyone. Learn to distinguish yourself.  Be a smart kid that can be envied by others.  That's who I am.  Make a difference in 2019!!!

LETS CELEBRATE OUR NYSC HEROES: mrs Uche Bakare!
most times,  In celebrating our heroes,  we focus on the the dead who has lived their love & contributed to the development of our society.  But today,  I choose to celebrrate my hero,  Mrs Uche Bakarae!!!  She is the state coordinator of NYSC in ogun state.  She is an epitome of a mother.  She staked her life for me when I was bedridden in the hospital due to I'll health.  She single handedly sponsored my medical bills,  paid my Practising fee & bought my call to Bar shoes for me.

She treated all of us at the NYSC as her sons & daughters. He is indeed a mother.  I believe that if the leadership of nysc is handed over to her at the Federal level,  every Nigerian youth will smile.  She treats us a s her own sons & daughters.

Which civil servant in our current dispensation will pay the medical bills of a Nigerian youth from her own individual purse?  How many civil servants will meticulously use the money entrusted to her.  I love her as a my mother & I recommend her to the incoming president of Nigeria as the Next NYSC Director General.
She has made Ogun state NYSC the best in Nigeria & I believe she will do more if given the privilege to oversee the national affair of nysc in Nigeria.
Mumy, I love you,  Rev. Oluwole & Mr Mayowa.

May God Almighty bless you all for me.
Once again,  I beckon on the federal government to increase the salary of these federal workers who leave their family in selfless service for the youths of Nigeria.  They ought to earn salaries that is commensurate to their work.
Mrs Uche Bakare, Rev. Oluwole & Mr. Mayowa are my heroes