TRUE TEST OF FRIENDSHIP
True friendship is determined at a time when the going gets real tough in one's life. A lot if people may really show care until a time when you become unbearable. It is at such time that you discover those who genuinely love & appreciate your person.

I've been through phases of friendship. The simple lesson I've learnt over time is that you need to be your own friend first. When you depend on external friendship, finding fulfilment becomes a luxury. But when you believe in yourself, finding fulfilment becomes a necessity!

THE HORRORS OF DEATH!
I'm a dead man!!! It feels giod to be on this side  of life. Patience is a virtue. The more you wait on God the more blessed you become. God is never late. His time is the best. I love Jesus my savior. He died for me so that I will never die again. I live eternally. I thank my Pastor, David Ogbueli...for teaching me how to live on this side of life. Thank you sir!!

As the last boy in our familyz I'm a child pf promise. I came after my brother Ifeanyi. We are the only sons of our parehts. We have 5kid sisters. They are my precious jewel especially Oluoma, Amara, Obioma, Ebere & Adaeze!!

It is good to die!!0 I have never weeped during burials because I'm just likevmy fiancee, Uche. Blessing, thank you for understanding my plight. Adaora, may you marry a mah like Asari Dokubo who owns a  university in Niger Republic.

My hand don dey pain me. I'm tired of writing. Lets try talking. I love you

ONCE A CORPER, ALWAYS A CORPER!!!
My 2019  vision is to revive, reinvigorate & Restore the lost dignity of National youth service. I want to see an NYSC built on selfless service for the Nation. I want an NYSC built on true Patriotism for our Nation, Nigeria.

I want an NYSC where officials are handsomely paid. I want an NUMYSC where the Directors especially the State Cordinator, Camp Director, Platon Inspectors & camp director earns at least 500k monthly with ancilliary allowances...

I want an NYSC where Corps members earn at least 50k monthly. I want an NYSC where Accomodation & transport allowance shall be provided for Corps members by both the Federal Government and other employers.
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I want a corrupt free NYSC. I want an NYSC where corpers shall be posted based on their academic discipline. For instance, our medical practirioners shoukd be posted to a General hospital & rural clinics. Lawyers should be posted to Local Government Areas & State ministry of Justice.

I want an NYSC where everyone is treated equally no matter the state of origin or family background. That is the NYSC OF MY DREAM!!!

KEEP WAITING ON GOD
I have been waiting on God to settle me. I feel I've invested so much without reaping anything. But I refuse to give up. I'll keep waiting on him until he choses to bless me. Since my father, Abraham waited, why won,'t I wait??

God never fails!! He is good at delaying our blessing because he wants to test our faith. I have learnt over the years not to rush God. I'll wait for him to bless me in His timing. Please, don't loose hooe. He never fails!!!

I love God Almighty with my body, spirit, soul & mind!! I encourage if young man or woman in 21st Centurt to make up his or her mind to follow God,!!!
God bless you!!!!

I TAKE RESPONSIBLITY FOR ALL MY ACTIONS

I've hurt so many people. I've many people cry fot my sake. I don't blame anybody for my actions. Its all my fault & I takr absolute responsibility for all my actions.

We are  all humans, hence , fallible & imperfect. If I have failed you, please find a place in your heart to forgive me. I'm so sorry. I promise to turn a nee leaf from now heneforth.

Do not hesistate to tell me wherre I erred against you. Lets love together as one big family in unity & love! Thank you so much. I love you!

SHARE YOUR KNOWLEGE WITH OTHERS
Most people think that the more the hoard what they know the better fior them. But I've come to learn that the more you sharewhat you know with others, the more God, multiplies your knowlege. Plesse learn to share whatever youhave with others.

Don't be too stingy with what ever God gives you. If you are rich, learn to share your resources with the poor and needy around you. Be good to people.  Don't be selfish what your material possessions. The tables of life could be shaked at any time. The person you helped today maybe the one to help you tomorrow.

Become a philantropist with the little you have. Don't wait until you have billions beore you can help the poor. Don't give money to your Pastor when you have not paid the school fees of that indigent kid around you.
Please share with othe!
I love you!!!!

JUST GET A FRIEND
You need a boy or girl friend!! You need someone you can lean on in times of tribulation. You need someone you can laugh with, smile with & cry with in times of pain. Don't be s lone ramger. Even the Holy Scriptures agrees with the fact that two is better tham one.

All my life, I've been blessed with friends espcially the female folks. In my University days, I had numerous female friends but guess what, I only had one girlfriend. Her name is Esther Dania Omokafe.  We never hugged nor kissed for 7years.

When I encourage youths to get a boyfriend or girlfrend, I don't mean a sex partmer. Any relationship that is built on sex will no  last. Build your friendship on the solid rock of God's word & Principles. That is the secret between my friendship with Esther. We both love God with our lives. When I served as Bible Study Secretary, Esther was my Assistant. Most timesz she prepares the Bible study manual on my behalf.

As two peiple from poor homes, we managed our resources very well. She wasn't demandimg so much from me because she knows my financia background. My respect for het doubled the day I took her to Shoprite for her birthday celebration. I told her to pick anything she wants....but she just picked few things & asked that we go home.

Esther remains my best friend!!
Please, get a friend this week & gist us on your experience..
I love you!!

MAKE THE BEST OUT OF YOUR TIME
As ASUU strikes, a wise student is not he or she that sits at home waiting till the strike is called off. Every minute of your life matters. Don't waste so much time watching moveis, playing video games, gossiping etc rather, use yoir time wisely.

I need you all to learn from my kid siter, Mercy. She became a full time busimess woman during this ASUU strike. She doen't depend on my parents for her daily upkeep. Thats the real slay mama. She sells soya milk, kunu & zobo. Thats my mum's business....she learnt same from my mum & she has been using that knowlege to mae cool cssh for herself.

All my sisters are industrious. I say this with every sense of humility. Don't use your poor background as an excuse for selling your body. There many things you can do to earn money. You can hawk sachet water....it doesn't make you any less big.  From hawking sachet water, you can become a distributor of bags of water.

Don't sit at home complaining. Just do something meaningful with your life. Don't chat all day. Have some savings as you spend your money!!

I love you!!

Make Your Relationship Complimentary

Most relationships in Nigeria fail because most girls have  a' receiving mindset. They have a sense of entitlement. They believe that it is the duty of men to always give while they remain at the receiving end. Most of the relaionships I've involved in have ended up due to this factor. Most 21st century slay mamas doesn't have my mum's kind of mentality. Thats why I'm scared of getting married. There are too many women in the world but few wives.
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My mum triained us in school when my dad's businesd failed. They both lived as best of friends even when my dad had little to offer. I believe thats how a realtionship should be. I have girls who have imsulted me because I don't have a car nor enough money to meet up with their numerous demands.

I believe in marring your best friend instead of marryiing  a man who has made it. Most relationships are not built on solid rock. They shatter into pieces when little wind blows on it. For now, am still looking for a best who will be like my mum to me. I pray God helps us find ome. Don't be a girl that loves momey more than you love your eternal happiness. Money cannot buy joy & fulfilment in marriage. But when you marry your best friend, you both can build each other together. It is well with us!

We Are a Chosen Generation

Irrespective of the lack,hunger, intimidation, reckless killings & starvation going on in Nigeria, we still remain the most blessed country in the world. We are envied by other nations of the world. Nigeria is blessed with both human & material resources. We have great potentials in Nigeria. Fortunately, my generation is the chosen generation or transformstion in Nigeria.

Every Nigerian youth is born wih a Destiny & a talent. Destiny is what you were created to be while potential or talent is what you derive joy in doing. For me, I have been drstined to be an erudite Lawyer but am talented in writing. Every Nigerian youth must discover his gift, talemt & potential.

While we await on God to salvage us from from the current government, it is expedient that we use our gift to create wealth for ourselves. Don't wait on government or white collar jobs. You can learn how to sow clothes, repair motorcycle, sell satchet water & how to use the internet. You must learn how to do things outside your discipline.

Don't accept defeat as a Nigerian Youth. We all are born to succeed! Your success is sure. Be kind to people. Invest in people's lives & destiny! It is well with you!!!

Most Nigerian Youths Are Lazy!!!!
President Buhari was correct when he told the international community that we are lazy. The only fallacy he committed was making it a hasty generalization. But the truth is that we are lazy. We only good at criticizing people online. We are not creative as a Nation. We derive joy in seeing the downfall of others.

Most Nigerians are very intelligent. The best brains in the world are Nigerians but our lazy attitude to work will not allow us to drill the best out ofour minds. We are good at snapping sexy pix & celebrating birthdays online. We are using the hardwork of Mark Zukerberg to fan our Lazy ass.
It is time for Nigerian youths to arise!! It is time for us to use our minds to create the best products in the world. Lets rise from our confort zones and work with our hands. For youths that enjoy sleeping alot....lets rise up from our slumber.

Lets raise the Nigerian banner high!! Lets arise & take over the government of Nigeria because it is our tine time to shine. Lets refuse to be intimidated by our elders. Lets respect them with humility but please, don't be timid.

God bless Nigeria!!!
I'm proudly a Nigerian!!!